I invite you to have a glance into my book, written these days- a story in which I describe a therapy session at the Arian Lev C
by Arian Lev on Monday, March 19, 2012 at 11:12am ·
One of my course called "The Secrets of Subconscious Healing", attended Joel.
Joel's a nice guy in his late thirties.
Joel joined the group out of curiosity and a deep desire to understand how the subconscious operates and its blockings.
As I explained how the subconscious operates, I invited a volunteer from the audience to come and make an experience.
Joel offered to volunteer and came to sit in front of me.
I asked Joel where do you feel stuck in your life? Joel replied that he felt he had somehow managed to progress well in his life. He got a job he really wanted although felt difficulty in connecting to his creativity, which was essential to his work. He also confessed he was experiencing depression that he'd been trying to fight for a long time.
He was in therapy for about a year with a psychologist, but he didn't feel any progression as for releasing all his emotional blockages. For example, he reported he was unable to cry for years, even though it was the focus of his therapy sessions.
I asked Joel to go back to the last time he was at his workplace and tried to tap into his creativity and the difficulty he felt there. Joel recalled that two days ago, he was sitting in the office, and since he is the Vice-President of a Business Development company, he tried to connect to captivating and creative ideas and thoughts seriously.
I sent him back to this same day at the office and asked him where he felt this sense of being stuck when you're sitting at your office and you are not able to focus. Joel mentioned that it feels like a burning sensation in his stomach. I asked him to go with the feeling and imagine entering the body from which stemmed the pain, and speak as if he was the pain itself.
Joel said: "I'm stuck, I can't get out, I cannot breathe!
- Okay, I said, stay with it. Imagine you are breathing light into the pain, and concentrate on what you experience just focus on what you are experiencing right now.
- I feel pain, very much pain.
- Ok, let's give to this pain, color and shape.
- What do you feel now?
- I need to move, it's like something want to come out.
-So just follow the movement that you feel and gently start moving. Joel started to stretch his back.
- Is there a sound?
- He began to hear voices, and after a while, he got up and started to jump and shake his hands.
- What happens? I asked.
- Well, it is less painful but still is.
- Try to give it a sound again. He leaned forward. Better, go with the movement. He continued to make sounds, which now sounded like a cough or vomit.
- What do you feel?
-Heavy and tired.
I sat beside him, put my hands on his stomach and back and did some healing therapy on these parts of the body and helped him to release the pain. Then I asked him to focus on the feeling and to go back in time to the first event in which he experienced this blockage and the abdominal pain.
Joel returned to the age of five and saw himself sitting and drawing, when his mother didn't pay attention to him. She was focused into herself and so, Joel felt lonely and disconnected. He brought the painting to his mother and wanted to give it to her as a gift so that she would be happy, but his mother didn't relate to it, she put it on the table and got back to sleep, with an incredible feeling of loneliness.
Little Joel felt very hurt and lonely, he felt that Mom does not understand him that her mother doesn't relate to him and, no matter what he does, mom will be sad and won't be there for him, she won't be on his side. He felt a strong sense of loneliness and helplessness.
When he came back from relaxation state and opened his eyes, I told him that the sense of the being stuck he feels when trying to connect to his creativity stems from that feeling. Every time he brings his wonders out and feels the need to give away his natural gifts to people and the environment, he repeatedly experiences the same feeling of rejection and abandonment he experienced when little... And the intense pain he had felt beforehand is actually the pain he felt for the first time at the age of five. This pain remained in his body and has being recycled again and again when he tried to connect to his creativity.
The subconscious blocks Joel has experienced all the time and stopped him are;
love = rejection, love = abandonment.
Creativity represents love and desire for love. But when he tried to give love and receive love from his mother, he experienced rejection and abandonment. That is why it hurts him so much.
As we looked into additional areas of Joel's life, we could definitely see that this behavioral pattern repeats itself. In love relationship, Joel is inclined to reject the one who wants him and be attracted to the one who rejects him and quits easily.
In the financial field Joel can make a lot of money, but is not able to hold it.
He sat quietly for a while, holding his heavy head. I explained to him that he could continue to experience physical and emotional reactions in the coming days and if that happens, he should see that as a positive sign. That is to say, the body continues to work out and release tension.
I recommended him as well to start therapy with one of the therapists specialized in the Arian Lev Method of Reprogramming the Subconscious in order to release the emotional blockage, so that his life will change once for all.
The next day, Joel had diarrhea and vomiting. Later that day he began to cry and shed tears. It happened several times in the next few days. Joel wasn't aware of why he was crying, but reported feeling a sort of purification, and it also made him feel lighter. When he cried, he felt pain in his stomach. So Joel enrolled the therapy program at the Arian Lev Center, and started to release the subconscious blocks holding him back.
When I spoke to him on the phone a few months after completing treatment, he thanked me again about the meeting, and said that this was a turning point, and he began a long process of releasing stress and tension. He also felt that he gained more from his personal therapy sessions after the group meeting he had with me.
And now, after treatment, is really feels like a new person, he breathes more easily, he can express himself better and better, creative ideas come up to his mind easily and he is also able to put them into action. He even allows himself to think big and recommend himself to new projects that never before would have thought to offer.
I asked him how he feels personally; he said he felt really happy and relieved. The relationships with his children seriously improved, he can connect to them and embrace their love. As for love relationship, he still hasn't found, but is sure it will come soon.
Most of his joy comes from his peace of mind and the sense of confidence he feels from within, knowing that no one can stop him and his has the power to achieve and do what he wants. Suddenly, he allows himself more. Suddenly he knew that he deserves more, and suddenly he has the time to relax and enjoy everything he already has in his life.
I was glad to hear what he revealed me and was thrilled to hear that the pain he felt completely disappeared from his life and that he feels like a rebirth.
I thanked him for his openness, and a slight smile of satisfaction crossed my lips…
